GOOD MORNING!   

Changing your life is definitely something that has to be done gradually, little by little.  You need to make realistic goals for yourself and take little pieces at a time.  There are lots of people, including myself, that have done New Year's Resolutions - but unfortunately, they didn't stick.  The whole idea of starting a new year with hopes of changing my life was amazing, but I feel I did it for the wrong reasons.  You need to want to change your life - whether it is eating healthier, getting that new job, career change, or whatever goal you set, you need to do it because you know you need it, not just for the sake of making a "wish".  Life changes are not easy to make, but if you take realistic steps you can achieve them!